Is dental school easier on life?

I am thinking about going to dental school instead of medical school because of the unreasonable strain that med school places on a woman's personal family life. Is it "easier" in the sense that it's also less stressful? For example, is it unreasonable to be a married person when you're in dental school? I know I won't be having kids until I'm out. I'd like to do a pediatric specialization. Thoughts on this? Thanks!

Is dental school easier on life?
Dental school treats different students differently. My experience was at least 98% positive, but some would tell you otherwise. I found that the best way to survive the rite of passage through dental school, which is still sort of a "Good Old Boy" network, is to just study and know your stuff. If you do NOT know your stuff, do not try to bluff your way through. Just say that you don't know the answer or need some help with the technique and you will find most instructors are interested in helping. Many instructors are part-time faculty with private practices in the real world. Nobody is forcing them to teach and they like to work with students who do not have a bad attitude and are ready to learn. There is more than one means to an end and students have to understand that they should not argue with an instructor who likes some different technique.





It's not as difficult as the life of a surgical resident or anything, but dental school was the hardest school I attended. The class day was scheduled from 8 to 5 with an hour for lunch. I needed to spend a few hours at home every night just to be sure that I was current. That's the secret to getting through. (As if you have not heard this, even in high school...) Be sure that you know TODAY'S work before you move on. Review every lecture and look up things that you don't understand. If you get lost in the second week, you will be hopelessly lost in the third and spinning your wheels uselessly after that.





In the clinical years, it can be difficult to match up your availability with clinic time availability, let alone your patients' time, but it can be done. In clinic, you have to do one step (or two) and wait to have it checked before you proceed. This can be frustrating for both you and your patient, as your instructor might be busy with another student who is having trouble. Some instructors like to hear their own voice and talk way too long, also. You will soon learn who they are and just avoid working with them in the clinic.





As far as what it is like to practice dentistry, I enjoy it. You need to have ability with your hands, sure, but you also need to really like people. All kinds of people. There are some difficult aspects of practice, including people who waited three weeks with a toothache before they give up and call for help, but this is what keeps it interesting. If you own your own practice, dealing with staff can be troublesome. Hiring and firing... (They don't mention business AT ALL in dental school, so you will have to learn a lot from others or try to take a couple of business courses as electives in your undergraduate years.) If you like to help people and don't mind some technical challeneges along the way, you will like dentistry. Sometimes it hurts and I still hate to hurt anyone. In the early years, I told my dad (also a dentist) that it bothered me sometimes when I knew someone was in pain or that their treatment was going to cost a lot of money. He said, "Listen. You did not give them cavities and you did not cause their pain. You are the one who is going to help them and get them out of pain." You have to remember that at all times.





For a woman, dentistry can be a mixed blessing. If you are trying to establish your own practice, the pressures of a family or having children can make it quite difficult at times. If you wish to be employed, however, I can't imagine a job that would offer more flexibility of hours. Just work from 10 to 2, if you want to. You would surely be able to find work.
Reply:I was married all the way thru dental school. You are somewhat confused. Dental school is very intense, challenging and time consuming. It caused a severe strain on many of my fellow classmates. The divorce rate during the years of dental school was almost 50%...that's right....50% of the students who were married when they started had gotten divorced before they graduated 4 years later. However, it's a great career choice.
Reply:Dentists have the highest suicide rate